This Is the Beginning of New Chapter In My Life
After completing the Objectives course I realized that to be able to have a successful, happy and honest life, you should apply these 4 points:
1. Be there in present time.
2. Confront what’s there.
3. Be aware of yourself and your environment.
4. Be in great communication with yourself and your environment.
In the beginning, I thought that the Objectives were useless and stupid, but I had a change of viewpoint two days ago when my wife and my mother got into a fight.
You see, before this program, I was afraid of confronting my mother, and I was always trying to find ways to escape her. However, this time I had no fear, and I was confident enough to call her and confront her. At the beginning of the call my mother was fine, then she started to scream at me and, surprisingly, it did not affect me because I had the tools to handle her in a calm, sensible and polite way.
Thanks to my communication drills, I understood her frustration, acknowledged her feelings and spoke to her like never before. Furthermore, it was the first time that I wasn’t even stressed before or after such a conversation. I could say that I was totally peaceful and relaxed and I will use this example to face many more scenarios in the future.
Even with my wife, I have handled situations in a better fashion because usually when she asked me the same question over and over I would get angry and upset. However, this time I understood her anger and reassured her that everything is changing and that she can expect only the best from me from now on. And, for the first time, I reassured her without lies and promises which I can’t deliver. I was calm, confident and honest.
This is the beginning of a new chapter in my life. My success is that I’m a lot more focused on the problems that I’m facing in present time and I am here, ready to confront any situation with no distractions.
T.—Narconon Europe Student
(To preserve privacy, the photo does not show an actual Narconon student or graduate.)